I am 20 years old , you may wonder what the worst problem I could face be. But you know...to each their own!I am of the age where a persons characters get shaped and i just feel like i should take a moment to analyse my flaws. Getting to my problem... We all have people we love and care about...people we wish stayed in our life forever! But who is to predict the future? Does that mean we dont expect anything from the future?
The biggest mistake we commit... we expect too much from people ! You might have felt" I do so much for him/her, what do i get in return?" of course you get nothing! We are all different, we grow up with different notions of displaying our affections. May be the person you have your expectations on is trying and you just cant see! Once we get the feeling that the relation is a one way road, we cease to see acknowledge any further attempts of the person to reach to our expectations.
The second big mistake: WE DO NOT LOVE OURSELVES ENOUGH!! So many of us are so desperate for love ! maybe from our parents friends or whomever! What if you could get all the love you wanted from yourself? and speaking logically...how can we expect others to love us when we dont love and respect ourselves! Cherish and celebrate your presence in this world! bcoz at the end of the day we are responsible for our own happiness .
Stay true to yourself! Always know what you want in life! You get to decide how you are treated! Learn to love yourself and expect nothing from anyone but yourself . What are your character fkaws ? What can we do to change ?
